Weddings are one of those unforgettable events in our lives. We look back on them with fondness since they’re a celebration of love, joy and, above all, new beginnings. And a part of every wedding is a suitable, nice outfit, through which we show our respect for the event as well as showing off our own style and character. In this article, we'll look at some practical tips that will definitely be a big help and will give you some useful advice on how to dress for a wedding as a guest.

The dress code

The dress code will describe exactly what style of clothes the bride and groom would like guests to wear at their wedding. Quite often, this may include specifying the color scheme or theme that they would like their wedding to have. It is usually listed directly on the wedding invitation, but if you don’t see a dress code specified, most weddings fall into two basic categories.

A black tie wedding

For black tie or lux weddings like those held at a chateau or in elegant venues in the evening, long evening or cocktail dresses in muted colors such as emerald, burgundy or navy blue would be appropriate.

An informal wedding

Informal weddings held in non-traditional venues are a great opportunity to wear natural fabrics. On hot summer days, you’ll especially appreciate the comfort of cotton and linen, which are both ideal choices.  If you prefer pant suits, you could complement them with a stylish, bolder top. Don't be afraid to experiment with less traditional materials such as lace or satin but keep in mind that even a relaxed wedding calls for a carefully thought out and tasteful outfit.

What are the current trends?

You don’t need to strictly follow just etiquette–why not also let yourself be inspired by current fashion trends. The fashions in the coming year bring several themes that could be just the thing.

  • Asymmetrical designs: An exposed shoulder, interesting layering or high slits add a touch of the dynamic to an outfit.
  • An exposed back: A simple yet sexy element that is tasteful. 
  • Pastel colors: Muted tones of pink, light blue and purple are still very popular. 
  • Satin and shiny fabrics: Fabrics with a soft shine look lux yet understated at the same time.

Our tip: If you're looking for inspiration or a specific design, take a look at these women's dresses that combine elegance with comfort.

Jewelry: The details that make the difference

Jewelry plays an important role when choosing an outfit for a wedding. It can elevate and complement your overall look beautifully. So what kind of jewelry is there to choose from?

  • Minimal jewelry: Choose fine earrings, understated bracelets or small rings if you're planning to wear a more glamorous dress.
  • Bold designs: If you are looking to wear a simple dress, you can be a lot freer when it comes to the jewelry. A chunky necklace, sparkling dangle earrings or a diamond tennis bracelet would add the perfect finishing touch to your outfit.

Our tip: Don't be afraid to experiment and mix different colors of gold, even with gemstones and pearls together.

Shoes and accessories: Think comfortable

Whether you're going to a wedding in a castle, a church or a garden, the choice of shoes is just as important as the dress. 

  • Outdoor weddings: A wide heel or timeless ballet flats are perfect for walking on a lawn. 
  • Black tie affairs: Pumps or elegant heeled sandals would be the right choice. 
  • Take an extra pair: Have a comfortable extra pair of shoes with you for the evening - you'll enjoy dancing much more in a pair of espadrilles or loafers. 

Our tip: Add a stylish mini handbag to your outfit–it looks very chic and will beautifully enhance your overall look together with your jewelry.

The bridesmaid’s dress: Comfort and elegance in harmony with the bride 

Bridesmaids have an important role at weddings. They are the bride's support on the big day–whether it’s helping with preparations, the organization or simply just being there to share in the joyful moments with her. Therefore, a bridesmaid’s dress must meet two key requirements: it should be comfortable, so that the bridesmaid feels good in it from morning to night, and elegant, so that it enhances the beauty of the bride.

  • In harmony with the bride: The most important criteria when choosing the dress is that it should be in harmony with the bride’s look and the style of the wedding. If the wedding is going to have a boho feel to it, the bridesmaids could choose light dresses with fine lace details or flowy maxi dresses. On the other hand, for a modern minimal wedding, dresses with simple lines and designs would look great.
  • Colors as a unifying element: A color scheme is often outlined for weddings to ensure visual harmony in wedding photos. Bridesmaids might wear dresses of the same color, or conversely, in different shades of the one color, creating an elegant gradient effect.
  • Varied designs: Every bridesmaid is unique, so it's great if the designs of their dresses are allowed to be different at the wedding. Some ladies might feel more comfortable in a dress with exposed shoulders, others might prefer a design with sleeves or an accentuated waist. It simply depends on their individual style.
  • Fine jewelry for bridesmaids: Keep it nice and understated when choosing jewelry. Earrings with pearls, simple chains or bracelets can add an elegant touch to the dress without detracting from the overall look. If the jewelry matches the style of the bride’s accessories, the result will look great.

Tip: Matching bridesmaid bracelets can become not just a stylish accessory, but also a beautiful gift from the bride that the bridesmaids will have as a unique keepsake. Personalization, such as the engraved wedding date or initials, will give the bracelets personality and special meaning.

What every modern woman should know

  • White is a taboo color: Unless the dress code is explicitly white, this color is strictly for the bride to wear. 
  • Respect the setting: The wedding atmosphere is key. For a garden wedding, choose a light dress, for a celebration in a chateau, a more formal gown. 
  • Don't forget about the other details: Nicely done up hair, make-up, a perfect manicure and jewelry will enhance your overall look.  

Become a guest that everyone will remember

A wedding is about love, celebration and the beauty of the moment. Your outfit should complement this mood - understated, elegant but confident. Remember, a tasteful dress and thoughtful accessories are the best combination.