Choosing a gemstone for an engagement ring is a crucial step that will affect not just the way the jewelry looks, but also its practical properties. The first factor that plays a role in choosing a gemstone is usually its color. The classic choice for an engagement ring is a clear diamond and it is still a popular one due to the timeless nature, beauty, durability and symbolism of clear diamonds. In recent years, however, color gemstones have also come to the fore.
The diamond–a traditional choice
For many decades, diamonds have undoubtedly been considered a classic choice for engagement rings, not only because of their dazzling, long-lasting beauty, but also for their symbolic meaning. Their hardness (10 on the Mohs scale) makes them the most durable gemstone of all, and they retain their brilliance and flawless appearance even when worn daily.
Did you know that the first diamond engagement ring was given by the Archduke Maximilian of Austria to his fiancée, Mary of Burgundy, in 1477? Perhaps that was the start of a tradition that has continued to this day.
One of the most popular diamond cuts is the round brilliant cut, which was designed to make the most of the stone's optical properties and to maximize its sparkle. A very typical engagement ring is therefore usually decorated with a round brilliant solitaire and this is a traditional, elegant design.
Diamonds come in several varieties to suit different customer preferences and budgets:
- Natural diamonds
Natural diamonds are formed deep in the earth's crust over millions of years. These stones have a long history and are associated with prestige and luxury which means that engagement rings with natural diamonds are often the go-to choice for people. They are also chosen by those who want to invest in jewelry with timeless, traditional beauty as well as a high degree of durability and longevity.
- Lab grown diamonds
Lab grown diamonds are a modern alternative to natural diamonds. They are created in specific laboratories in conditions that mimic processes which occur naturally. They are chemically and optically identical to natural diamonds which guarantees that you still get the same qualities as natural diamonds at a more affordable price. Lab grown diamonds are often chosen by those who are looking for an engagement ring with a larger stone.
- Color diamond
In addition to classic clear diamonds, there are also diamonds in many different colors. Color diamonds, known as fancy diamonds, come in shades of yellow, pink, blue, green, gray or even black as well as many other colors. These types of diamonds are perfect for those looking for a unique, but still very durable stone.
Color gemstones–all about unique style and individual preference
If you prefer color gemstones to diamonds, we recommend choosing not just based on color, but also taking into account the characteristics of the stone–especially its hardness. It determines how well a gemstone can withstand everyday wear and tear. For instance, sapphires and rubies are hard enough to last for years without damage. But softer stones such as topaz, moldavites, citrines, amethysts, garnets and emeralds may require more care. How do color gemstones compare to diamonds? Learn more in our article on the hardness of gemstones.
The most popular color gemstones for engagement rings include:
Sapphires
As a variety of corundum, sapphires are among the hardest of gemstones and have a long history of featuring in engagement rings. Sapphires are most commonly blue, but they also exist in pink, yellow and white. They have a hardness of 9 on the Mohs scale and this makes them suitable for everyday wear since they resist scratches and wear and tear well. Sapphire engagement rings were popularized by the British Royal Family, chosen by Lady Diana in a ring that’s now worn by Catherine, Princess of Wales.
Rubies
The ruby is the stone of passion and love. It is one of the rarest gemstones and its deep red color has symbolized luxury and high status since ancient times. With a hardness of 9, like sapphires, it comes with a high degree of durability.
Gemstone shapes
When choosing an engagement ring, it’s not just the type of gemstone that plays a role, but also its shape. This affects the overall look of the ring, as well as how the stone will sparkle and how resistant it will be to damage. It’s therefore worth paying attention not just to the aesthetics of a gemstone, but also to its practical aspects.
Why you shouldn’t underestimate the choice of a gemstone
Choosing the right stone for an engagement ring is crucial because this is a piece of jewelry that will be worn every day for many years. In addition to its appearance, it’s essential to consider the durability of a gemstone. Some, especially the softer ones, may require more careful handling and this should be taken into consideration when you make your choice.
